I think being different in a family is natural. If everyone in a family was the same, they might argue more because they want the same things. Having different likes helps avoid fights. So, it seems like it's part of our nature. But, our experiences also shape our personality. For example, if a brother goes through something tough that his sister doesn't, it will affect his personality.
我認為在家庭中有所不同是很自然的。如果家庭中每個人都一樣,他們可能會因為想要同樣的事情而爭吵更多。有不同的喜好有助於避免爭吵。因此,這似乎是我們天性的一部分。但是,我們的經歷也塑造了我們的個性。例如,如果弟弟經歷了一些姐姐沒有經歷過的困難,這將影響他的個性。