It's probably genetic to be honest. I mean, if all the members in a family had the same personality, they would all want the same things and probably end up falling out with each other. If we all have different preferences and want different things, then it avoids conflicts, so, in this respect, it's innate. But our personality is also affected by the life experiences we have. If one brother has a traumatic experience that his sister doesn't have, then this will have an effect on his personality and possibly change it.
老实说,这可能是遗传。我的意思是,如果一个家庭中的所有成员都有相同的性格,他们就会想要同样的东西,最终很可能会彼此不和。如果我们都有不同的偏好,想要不同的东西,那么就能避免冲突,所以,从这方面来说,这是与生俱来的。但是,我们的性格也会受到我们生活经历的影响。 如果一个哥哥有妹妹没有的创伤经历,那么这就会对他的性格产生影响,并有可能改变他的性格。